In general, children are in adolescence elementary, middle stage. Varying degrees of difficulty facing the knowledge learned, most adolescent children tend to lose the sense of learning motivation before, fear is often difficult to hate thinking, willing to ease, and so easy to meet. So the lack of ambition of the kids how to do it? (1) Parents should guide their children to learn than with others in this highly competitive society, the reason why some children are not motivated, often because they lack a competitor to catch up, do not inspire inner initiative. So, when the parents are still easy to meet the child's mind and headaches, may wish to adopt such an approach - for him to find a competitor. (2) to guide their children to learn with their parents to guide their children than if compared with others, is a driving force behind their advance, then, to learn with their parents to guide their children than it is equivalent to inspire children and progressive driving force. Parents should help their children starting from their own reality, establish clear learning goals, let them know where they need to improve, which should also be moving in the direction of its efforts on what they can do better. Over time, the child will develop their own than with their own habits, constantly demanding their own progress, and thus have a positive initiative and self-motivated. (3) Parents always want to pay attention to is: to help children establish goals in the process, parents can give the child all of a sudden made a difficult target. This hasty approach for lazy spoil the child, it is unrealistic, is not easy to accept. The correct approach should be to let them step by step, slowly changing, experiential learning little by little sense of accomplishment. In this way, he can talk himself more proactive than be happy with themselves better. Children EQ buck teeth rabbit paradise: domestic authority children's emotional intelligence training institutions, is the only company specializing in children aged 0-15 authority EQ education. Committed to improving children self-confidence, independence, empathy, responsibility, self-discipline, emotional management, interpersonal, problem solving, frustration resistance nine EQ characteristics. Throughout the country more than 70 training centers annually serve 80,000 children aged 0-15 and their families. Buck teeth rabbit EQ children park Address: Beijing still have garden: Beijing East Bridge Road, Chaoyang District 8 SOHO Shangdu Theta four Tel: 4007799916 appointment official website: http://www.kidsel.com/